India, with its diverse landscapes and profound spirituality, is indeed a destination where one can truly eat, pray, and love. Through the exploration of diverse flavours, spiritual practices, and moments of love, my journey through India echoes the sentiments of Elizabeth Gilbert’s iconic tale, enriching my own story along the way. Prior to setting foot in India, my perceptions were shaped by the cinematic portrayal of Elizabeth Gilbert’s journey in the iconic film “Eat Pray Love”. Last night, as I watched this film (for the 100th time) in Rishikesh, I found myself reflecting on how my own experiences in India have far exceeded any preconceived beliefs or cinematic expectations.
EAT
Approaching each day with an open mind and eager palate, my culinary journey in India has been a feast for the senses. The array of mouthwatering foods, from the aromatic spices to the sizzle of street food, has shown me how diverse food is over here. Dosas became a new fan favourite, and my newfound love for paneer will be returning home with me. Distinguishing between roti, naan, and chapati has been a learning experience, especially when I had the opportunity to make chapati in a temple kitchen. Whether dining on the floor in rows at an ashram, sampling street delicacies, savouring thali between long bus rides, or enjoying meals at a rooftop cafe, the communal spirit of food in India reminded me of the warmth and love associated with meals back home in NZ. Despite my initial apprehension towards spicy food, the vast variety of flavours in Indian cuisine has broadened my palate, and I look forward to trying to re-create dishes back home, starting with Dosas.
PRAY
Having limited exposure to religious practices and meditation before this journey, exploring the spiritual aspects of India has been a revelation. Engaging in various spiritual practices, including meditation, ancient rituals, and visits to places of worship, I uncovered the beauty and diversity of spirituality in India. Observing the devoted spiritual seekers across India, and participating in spiritual activities that connect to something greater than myself has been a blessing and provided many learning experiences. Writing this amidst the tranquil banks of the Ganges in Rishikesh, surrounded by the Himalayas, I’ve immersed myself in ancient practices and ashrams that have drawn seekers for centuries. The serene sound of the river and the panoramic views of the mountains create a perfect setting for self-reflection and inner peace. I’ve come to realise that plurality and religion coincide here in a beautiful way and enables people to pray to many different gods or goddesses. I have learned that meditation is a powerful tool, and a skill that I will carry back home with me. I am grateful for the rich and diverse spiritual experiences that have deepened my understanding of both my own faith and the beliefs of others.
LOVE
Love has been the cornerstone of my journey, as I’ve delved into diverse cultural traditions, explored breathtaking sights, embraced various religions, and sampled an array of foods. Yet, the true essence of this adventure lies in the cherished companions who have shared it with me. Together, we’ve forged profound connections amidst unfamiliar landscapes, navigating the highs and lows of our travels. I have loved stepping outside of my comfort zone and learning new things about myself. Throughout this journey, I have witnessed a profound love for human connection, stunning architecture, tantalising cuisine, beautiful views and religious devotion that is present everywhere. I have loved being able to share this journey with a group of amazing people and building lifelong connections in India.
Throughout the last 35 days, I have been able to create my own narrative where I have eaten, prayed and loved deeply. This trip has taught me to question my own stereotypes and beliefs based on preconceived notions including from films like “Eat Pray Love”. I will continue to eat my favourite Indian foods, pray to something higher than myself, and have a deep love and appreciation for the lessons India has taught me.