Kathy: Expect the Unexpected

Reflection:

Life lesson: things don’t always go to plan. By now I thought I would be telling you all about how I made it through my first set of partial exams, the epic spring break adventures I got to experience with my new friends and how I met the Mexican man of my dreams (seriously). I didn’t ever expect to be withdrawing from my exchange 3 months early, and I certainly wouldn’t have imagined I’d be writing this post from my childhood bedroom back in NZ where the entire country is currently in a lockdown; the world facing a pandemic it was not prepared for. But that is in fact exactly how things played out, and though it’s been tough, I know that overcoming challenges such as these is a part of life.

Yes, I’m sad, but I’m also incredibly grateful for the time that I was able to spend overseas. I’m grateful that my family and I are safe and comfortable, and that Covid-19 has not affected my life in such a drastic way as many others who have lost their jobs or loved ones. Even so, now that I have had the opportunity to slow down and reflect on everything that has happened, the truth is that the past few weeks have been really hard for me. Having all your plans get completely changed in such a short space of time is obviously a shock to the system, and I think I have just needed some time to fully comprehend and accept my current situation.

View of Mexico City while transiting on the way back to NZ.

Final Weekend in Mexico:

I remember when the World Health Organisation first declared that they were considering the Coronavirus to be a pandemic, which was just a few days before my friend and I had planned to fly down to Jalisco for a long-weekend trip. It never really crossed our minds that this was something we should even consider cancelling, and I think I actually laughed and said something along the lines of “don’t be ridiculous” when questioned if I was thinking of going back to New Zealand early. It was that very weekend I booked my flights home…

The University of Auckland sent out an email saying that all students and staff currently overseas should return as soon as possible, though exchange students ultimately had the choice whether to stay or not. I desperately did not want to leave, but after lots of calls home and talking to my family, I realised that there was just no way to predict how the situation was going to develop in Mexico. My travel insurance had an exclusion for any claims caused by a pandemic disease (I was aware of this, but at the time I thought what are the chances, right???), so at the end of the day, I made the heart-breaking decision that it was safest to try and get home while there were still flights available.

The rest of the trip consisted of a fair bit of crying along with many unforgettable experiences, such as watching the Danza de los Voladores – the Voladores or “flyers” lower themselves from a very tall pole by swinging from rope tied to their ankles – or driving around the small town of Tequila in a tequila-bottle-shaped-bus. I feel so fortunate to have had such a great last weekend in Mexico, and it has made me realise how much more of the country I would still love to explore! I know for sure that I will return one day soon.

Danza de los Voladores.

What I’m Doing Now:

Tec de Monterrey had just switched to online classes when I left but had not yet decided if these would extend right to the end of the semester, or if online examinations would be an option. They have now confirmed this, and I know quite a few exchange students have decided to complete the Tec semester from their home countries, but at the time I couldn’t be sure if it would work out. I was also offered the choice to enroll back at UoA, but this would have meant catching up several weeks of work while in self-isolation and honestly, I just did not think I would be able to cope with the stress of it all. I therefore decided to take the semester off completely. Even though this is going to extend my degree and has left me in a bit of a limbo at the moment, I don’t regret it at all because it’s given me the time I needed to work things through.

I’m currently still figuring out if it’s going to be possible to go back to uni next semester (engineering degrees are very structured and courses tend to build on prior content), but I’ve got my fingers crossed and even if I can’t, I know I’ll still manage to work it all out. I’ve come to the realisation that missing a year is not the end of the world in the grand scheme of things. This whole situation has been a great opportunity for me to weigh up what is most important to me in life, and for that I am truly grateful.

I just want to say thank you so much again to the 360 International team for being so supportive, and I hope that this reflection might be useful to anyone going through a similar experience.

To finish, enjoy these photos of some yummy Mexican food because let’s be honest that was always going to be the best part 😉.

Hasta luego everyone, thanks for following along xx

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