London Heathrow, 8am: It finally sinks in. The feeling that you’re literally on the other side of the planet, with four pieces of luggage, alone. I’ll be honest, I was not mentally prepared for this and had initial doubts, or even minor anxiety. But, I thought “You’re here for a year, better get used to it. Just take a deep breathe”. After some mental prep, I headed off to customs and then to the big Central Bus Station where I was to catch a bus to Southampton.
The National Express Bus took me through the British countryside and some small towns. I was relieved to see a sign on the motorway showing that Southampton wasn’t so far away now. My body clock was a mess and I wasn’t sure if I was hungry, sleepy or both. I was a 6 month old baby stuck in the body of a 19 year old. Soon, the bus arrived at the Coach Station in town and I was able to get a taxi to the AirBnB that I was staying at for the first few days.
The couple who I stayed with was very sweet and they even took me down to the local Sainsbury’s (imagine if Countdown and The Warehouse had a baby) just to keep me active and to stop me dozing off on the spot. I had an early dinner and was out cold by six o’clock (still acting like a 6 month old).
I didn’t do much for the next couple of day except eat, sleep and cry – I mean try to get out of the house and explore. As my sleep schedule adjusted to the local time, I felt more active and energetic. The weather was (and still is) super cold, and even colder during the night as it would often dip into the negatives. Although snow isn’t common here, I saw my first snow on the night of Waitangi Day. Winter is in full swing here, and for a person like me, who has survived Auckland’s wind and rain, I took my mother’s advice and wore a jacket (and 3 other layers) when going out.
The city seemed very lowkey and even a bit dull at times. It’s a quiet place (the way I like it) at least during the week, but being a town with two universities, the weekends get a bit rowdy. There’s a big mall, and a giant IKEA which you could easily get lost in and even the remains of a medieval city wall and gate. There are a few parks too. They seem pretty neglected right now, but I’d imagine them being much better once it gets warmer.
A day before moving into my Hall, I did a day-trip to Salisbury (pronounced Sawls-bree, it remains a mystery why and how) and the Stonehenge. My second major is Anthropology and so I was very keen to visit this historical monument. Salisbury town is basically the starter pack for “a small European town”. It ticks all the boxes. Narrow, cobbled lanes (check), small river flowing through the centre and an old mill (check), a large cathedral (check). Bonus points because this one has the tallest spire in the UK.
Currently, I’ve been going to uni for two weeks. It’s still cold, I’ve been dished out assignments already and I’m trying to cut back on eating ready meals and cook for myself. Anyway…hope you enjoyed reading this little slice of my life. Stay wholesome!